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Lynda Heines's avatar

Love this and it's inspired me to write a post about it! Well, so far I've just written it in the shower this morning after reading this!! Thanks. Love it!

Paul Chiddicks's avatar

What a wonderful way to think about family history. "Verbal heirlooms" is such an evocative phrase, and your story is a reminder that our ancestors live on not only through photographs and documents, but also in the words, expressions and little habits we inherit without even realising it. It certainly made me think about the sayings that have been passed down in my own family.

Kirsi Dahl's avatar

Thanks Paul! I hope to hear about some of your family sayings soon!

Paul Chiddicks's avatar

I am definitely working on it!

Michael's avatar

This is great! My grandma always used to say “you’s”… “You’s come in and sit a spell.” “Love you’s!” “You’s et yet?” “You’s come on in, now and have some pie.”

Kirsi Dahl's avatar

Love, love, love!

Jami's avatar

Love it . Fun story

Paula Delesha's avatar

Well, I'll be damned. I love this one!!

Jenny MacKay's avatar

You’ve now got me thinking about my “verbal heirlooms”. I’m sure once I start there will be many. One that sprung to mind immediately was my dad saying “everybody happy?” I’ve used it over the years myself at various gatherings without realising and immediately dad is in the room.

Kirsi Dahl's avatar

That sounds like a very thoughtful verbal heirloom!

My dad (in addition to the “no shot?” Phrase) has another one that he uses when he’s done with talking to people… “well, ok then…” that’s our signal that it’s time to go. 😂

Kathy Stone's avatar

Wonderful Kirsi! I will be deep in thought all day trying to remember verbal treasures now. One that has persisted with my husband and sons is "Mama Finder", started by my ability to find things that were "lost forever" after a very short period of one of the males looking for something. "Lost Forever" is still frequently used to this day. Thanks for the inspiration!!

Kirsi Dahl's avatar

That’s a great one! I hope you think of more!

Matthew Broadhead's avatar

Tangible Vs intangible. It is definitely worth considering family history from both sides.

tiny zephyr's avatar

Hidden in plain sight! Brilliant & funny.

Michael's avatar

My grandpa didn’t say “you’s” but he was always talking about the mysterious “whatchamacallit”. He would be working on something and say, “Hand me a 3/8s whatchamacallit.” The funniest time he used the word was when we had them a long on a trip out West and he saw his first elk from along side the rode. He got all excited and yelled at my grandma, “Minnie! Look at that whatchamacallit next to the whatchamacallit!” My grandma looked and frustrated by the ambiguous direction replied, “Damn Charley what are you talking about!?”:-)))